Texts From Kids

Our children being the right to the point kinda kids they are 

text us often. They ask us all kinds of crazy things. 

What are you doing? 

(really, they are just being nosy)

What's the square root of 144?

(an obvious pitch for homework help)

What time was I born? 

(trying to figure out who's really oldest - therefore the alpha male)

When will you be home?

(they want to know how much longer they can do what they aren't supposed to)

Did you do this as a kid?

(I usually tell my husband it's OK to LIE when this question is asked) 

I often say that God gave me children to drive me to the closest

line of insanity only to be the same ones to jerk me right back with

their silly humor and quick wit.

After this week, I needed a good chuckle.

This is the latest text.....

HEY DAD! Ok, let's cut to the chase..... what is for dinner?

Heartbreak - Facing Loss

Mickey Hix 3/30/42-9/26/11

I think as a mom the hardest thing we will face is the heartbreak of our children. We try to protect our kids from everything we can but there's some things that we just have no control over. One week ago today our family faced the loss of my husband's mother. Although, we were saddened by her passing, our sons, one more than the others, were just so overcome with heartbreak.
As a mom, I just wanted to scoop them up and hide their eyes. I wanted to cover their ears. I wanted to put them in a world all our own to protect them from the inevitable pain that lie ahead. But death is something we all must face, even our little ones.
So, each day, I just pray that God puts his cloak of protection around the hearts of my sons. That they know the good times they had with Granny. That they know when she pointed her finger toward heaven that she was seeing Jesus Himself welcoming her into His Kingdom. That they know her biggest prayer for them was happiness and a deep love for Christ.
Lord, they're all Yours. Protect my boys. Ease their heartache. Lift them up in Your arms and hold them close. Bring them comfort. Guide us as parents to provide all the tools to make this loss a celebration of life. We thank You for the beautiful time You allowed us to share with Granny. We thank You for salvation and knowing that soon we will see her again. We praise Your name, Jesus. Amen.

Blessed Breakfast Burritos

A few weeks back we hosted an Alex's Lemonade Stand.
Our good friend over marketing for a large local restaurant chain brought breakfast to our group. Of course, our boys eat like it's their last meal each time they sit with food. Although we had already had breakfast one of the twinnies eyes just lit up as he saw our friend coming. He knew without a doubt, she'd have coupons for treats and, like always, goodies from the restaurant.
As we chatted amongst ourselves and donators I forgot completely about the food. That is until my son looked up at me and in his best Southern preacher voice exclaimed:

The Lawd hath sent down an angel from heaven to bring me this delicious breakfast burrito. Hallelujah! 

To which our friend replies: I'm so glad that I have found my purpose and how He uses me to do His work!

Momisms by Anita Renfro.... The Mom's Laugh

So, I've had my laugh today.... GOAL ACCOMPLISHED! Let's see if we can share the giggles with my kiddos!!!




Thanks Karla! She passed this along to me after reading my post this morning! And that's EXACTLY how my evenings sound! Sure my kids would agree!

The Mom's Goal Today..... Laugh!

LAUGH!!!!

Things seem so serious all the time around here. The boys get home and we're getting homework done. Get your chores done. Is your room clean? Wash up for dinner. Please eat with your mouth closed and hurry up you're the last one at the table... again. Shower! You're using all the hot water... get out! Are all your dirty clothes in the hamper? Brush your teeth. Is your backpack ready and you have all your clothes laid out right? Head to bed boys. Boys! Boys! Boys, I-SAID-GO-TO-SLEEP!!!!!

The other night someone told me his goal for his kids growing up was for them to look back and say they ENJOYED their childhood. Even as I type, I think, well.... our evening routine is really NOT filled with moments that make my kids want to smile. That is where The Mom is involved anyway. So, today, I'm going to try to find a way to make our nights fun. We can get all those things done without stress and frustration.

Perhaps we will turn the radio all the way up in the MomMobile tonight on the way to church. They can sing as loud and as bad as they want. Or maybe a quick board game before we pack up to run off. Or maybe even a special treat for whoever eats the most peas! LOL! I'm not sure, but tonight we will LAUGH!

Being his own person

I've tried to be patient with my oldest as he learns to express himself.

God do you hear me???

Please bring back my NORMAL son!

I think I've seen all the black jeans & t-shirts I care to see.

The hair in the face drives me bonkers!

And now, the black fingernails and eyeliner! 

How do embrace my son if all I want to do is scream or cry every time I look at him?

Before I know it he'll look like this....

God! It's me, The Mom.....

  I know you gave me kids for a purpose but there’s some days I wonder why?
If you have kids, girls or boys, you know what I’m talking about. But boys, whew! They are tough. Trust me, I know. I have FOUR! Our oldest is 15. He’s mine from a previous relationship. Our other three, 14 and twin 11 year olds are from my husband’s first marriage.
I LOVE being a mom! But to look at me some days, you would think I HATED it. Most days, it seems, I’m a big bundle of stress and stain. I’m griping and fussing about everything from socks in the floor, to pee on the seat, to “don’t look at me in that tone of voice”. I’ve been called too strict, overboard, and even self-dubbed myself “Hitler Mom”. But these aren’t things I’m proud of.
Today, I start a new journey. Being the kind of mom that God wants me to be is my goal. There’s so many goals that lie ahead. So many challenges to face and habits to implement. But I want it to all be according to God’s plan for our family.
So, here are my goals to start:
1)   Be the best me I can be.

• Deuteronomy 6: 5-6  5 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.6 These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts.

2)  Be the best wife I can be:

• I know many of us have problems with the whole “SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND” thing but before you get all bent out of shape remember this scripture. It’s a two-way street stated in the 1st verse and broken down as you read further, so don’t stop. If it makes you feel better, you can see that our husband should mutually submit to us too. We just have different roles.
• 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. (see, it’s right there)
  22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. (If we so easily submit ourselves to Christ, why is it so hard to submit to the man that God has appointed to head our household?)
  And now for his role… just to make us feel like the playing field is even
  25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

3)  Teach my children by example

• Deuteronomy 6: 7-9  7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.8 Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.9 Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.
• Children, like most of us, learn by watching. How often do you feel your kids are hearing the Peanuts Mom? Wha-wha-wha-wha! Yeah, I remember my mom talking like that. I could find a speck on the wall and stare all while she talked and talked about the terrible thing I’d done and how I should feel so terrible about it. I must be very careful about what I do and say because my kids are always watching and they usually hear EVERYTHING I don’t want them to.
• Discipline with GRACE. Proverbs 19:18 Discipline your children, for in that there is hope; do not be a willing party to their death. Colossians 3:21 Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. Ephesians 6:4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

I have a lot of work ahead. But aren’t we all works in progress? I many not have done everything right up to this point, but I can sure try from this moment on…..

God! Do you hear me? HELP!!!!!!